09/23/2013

Relationships

The imperfect phase in every relationship starts after 60 days, where couples start to feel comfortable within the relationship, relax and let see your mistakes and to show such which are. But what happens if what I see I do not like really. Then begin my questions: what to do? I handle it?, I can accept it and live with it? Do I start another relationship? After the idyllic period, one may face situations that don't like your partner, for example that you are sitting in the car of his beloved, and he with a profane vocabulary against another driver, working for a bad manoeuvre. Or you go out to dinner with your girl to a restaurant, and she has no manners at the time of eating. At this point the mental projection of the perfect couple begins to disappear and instead can sadness. However always one can choose between three options: 1. OK this means that you can be with someone, recognizing that there is no perfect / but that their relationship has more advantages than disadvantages. And those advantages, have a great meaning for you.

2 Reject this means that within the imperfections that your partner has, that imperfection, that you have discovered or that he didn't recognize, you simply can't live with them. Because they are totally beyond their limits of acceptance. 3 Tolerate means to mean acceptance and a rejection of halfway. This attitude can eventually kill a love affair, because when one tolerates something outside their own borders, he lives under the shadow of sadness and discontent, and ultimately cause harm self. It is best to define what you want as a couple, before continuing with a relationship that is unable to fill their basic expectations.

The most important thing would be then that before initiating a relationship, go with a concept as clear as possible, the ideal couple we're looking for, based on the physical, intellectual and mental and emotional qualities of us, we want to share and receive from that person. Remember that the easiest thing is to love of the man or perfect woman, because in reality. do not exist only in our imaginations. And despite the fact that the vast majority of people we would like to find a man like David Beckham or a woman more or less similar to Jessica Alba and Scarlett Johansson, we always have to go beyond what our eyes can see, in the physical world.
Sep 23, 2013 7:12:25 PM

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